My natural hair journey has provided many lessons. I've learned to accept what I can't anticipate and control. I've learned that no one paid as much attention to my hair as I did.
Still I have days like today, where I have to remind myself that nothing and no one is perfect. I was well-prepared for my flight to North Dakota today. My company hires a charter to take employees and contractors up every Monday and back on Thursdays. I left the house about an hour and a half before my flight's departure. Typically, it only takes 20 - 30 minutes to get to the airport.
Today there was a accident on the way, and I missed my flight. It was particularly difficult/embarrassing because there was someone on the flight who was relying me to be there. We're leading training together this week. She needed me to drive because she didn't have the training our company requires.
Initially, I worried that I couldn't get a flight to my destination. Even after I managed to rebook my travel, I still kept thinking really negatively about myself. "Why didn't I leave earlier? My boss is going to be so angry with me. I've let everyone down. There's no way I can recover from this."
I don't recognize myself when I start thinking this way. After taking a deep breath, I made my way to my new terminal and started making phone calls and emails to make sure my travel companion would be met by someone from our office who could get her to her destination.
I did it, and everything will be OK. I'm losing productive time sitting in the airport that I'll have to make up this week.
Why is it so hard to remember: That nothing and no one is perfect?
One of my favorite children songs is "I'm Not Perfect," by the Laurie Berkner Band.
I'm not perfect, no I'm not
I'm not perfect, but I've got what I've got
I do my very best, I do my very best
I do my very best each day
But I'm not perfect
And I hope you like me that way
When our children were younger, we heard this song almost everyday. I recognized it was an important message for the children to hear and take to heart, but clearly I didn't take it to heart. Sometimes plans don't work out. Sometime people let us down. Sometimes we're the ones who let others down. There's forgiveness even for us all, and hopefully time to re-book.
I totally co-sign on this. I was working at a newspaper in Miss. when the management and myself parted ways. I wasn't prepared, didn't have a plan b and my wife and I had just gotten married. I cried but the Lord gave me a Willie J hug and said He was in full control. That has always stuck with me. If we had our own planet, no outside resistance or forces tugging against us, we could obtain perfection. That's not entirely possible in this life. Things happen. You never know what was just ahead. An accident, a nail blowing out the Mini Cooper's tire and causing a far worst fate. I accept life and the ugly spots that come along with it. They make me who I am today. Without haters at my first newspaper showing me the door, I wouldn't be here in Houston, covering video games for one of the largest metro newspapers in the United States and rolling with the executive editor to a PRSA luncheon to do tech support :) Only one was perfect, and homie died for our sins (Romans 10:9). Peace!!!
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